In pre-marriage counselling, I often make the point to couples that they are not marrying the other person to become happy, but to make their partner happy. If they are both seeking to make each other happy, guess what? They will both experience happiness!
Church attendance is similar. Do you come to church to feed yourself, to make yourself happy? Then maybe applying the principle; we should come to seek the happiness of others rather than ourselves, is how we should approach church attendance!
Why not try making someone else happy today as you attend worship here in Willesden? Have a meaningful worship experience today!